The #1 Reason Marriages Become Sexless (And What To Do About It)
Remember a while back when I boldly stated:Shared victories would eliminate bedroom blahs and spark up a connection that had gone cold. I have a confession. I was wrong. The secret to a great...
View ArticleRules of Reality – interview with Anthony Carter (VIDEO)
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View ArticleNine Things Black Folks Need to Stop Doing Part 8 (Addressing Mental Health...
If we really want to move forward and make some changes, we’ve got to get and keep our minds together. So many of us are bat shit crazy with no desire to get better. We can’t move forward when so many...
View ArticleNine Things Black Folks Need to Stop Doing Part 9 (Physical Well Being)
Diabetes, obesity, high blood pressure,stress (the body’s reaction to carrying more than it should, thanks bell hooks)and cancer are just a few of the things that seem to attack us and take us out in...
View ArticleThe High Cost of Being Right
Brene Brown in all fierce wisdom reminds us that men are socialized to not “appear weak”. This set up demands that men have all the answers all the time and be willing to share this knowledge with the...
View ArticleKiss Your Fear of Death Goodbye: Why Fifty is Fabulous and Not Finished
My eyes no longer work. I can read and see street signs and apparently this is all you need to get a new pair of glasses and be able to function in the real world. I used to dance all night multiple...
View ArticleFifty Ain’t Dead
As I mentioned earlier, this year I turned fifty. It seems that people think it is over. What would I do if I listened to people who say go away, die. While no one will say it directly, the culture...
View ArticleThe Simple Way to Move from Stuck to Being Fulfilled
As you age and try to put together your next steps, it becomes easy to feel disappointed , less than and begin comparing yourself to others. In my personal life, I am now seeing friends, colleagues and...
View ArticleHow to Get Financially Fit at Fifty
Thirty years ago, I was flat out dumb about the power of finances. I spent money with abandon and knew nothing about saving, long term planning or the choices that could be created if one handled their...
View ArticleWho Else Wants to Hire a 30 Year Old with 50 Years of Experience?
In the book, So Good They Can’t Ignore You, the writer shares a term (that I love) called Career Capital. This means there are folks who have put in their time, earned their stripes and learned “a...
View ArticleHow to Stop Torturing Yourself For the Next Fifty Years
During the last fifteen years, I’ve chosen to confront and manage not only my wants but the wanting of those around me. At fifty, I still have a fair amount of wants and remain super clear as to how to...
View ArticleDon’t Read This Unless You Plan on Living to Be 1,000
Almost ten years ago, I made a personal vow to myself. My vow was all about committing to a life of artistic merit. My decision was to give myself fifty years to “make it” in the arts. While my idea of...
View ArticleWhat Fifty Years of Compassionate Impatience Can Get You
In this country, three factions can get away with telling the truth- mentally insane, small children and old folks. If you live long enough, you will get to spend some time in each category. Currently,...
View ArticleHow to Recreate Your Family and Guarantee a Sense of Belonging
When children are born, they are looking in the faces of all these strange people with one question in mind- Do I belong here? What we are seeking from birth onward is the question: Am I worthy of...
View ArticleAsk the Old Guy Speaks to His 20 Something Self
About twenty years ago, I took a huge risk, grew a set of larger-than-normal nuts and decided that I would write and perform characters. Each character in my opinion was bright, witty, interesting and...
View ArticlePsst: Here’s the Secret for Eliminating All Stress in Your Life
For many years, I was awash in curiosity about sociopaths and their behavior. In my twenties, I jumped from one ill fated and doomed romance to another always stating these dumb ass responses for my...
View ArticleAnthony on the Genesis Science Fiction Radio Series (audio)
Have a listen to a recent conversation on the GENESIS SCIENCE FICTION RADIO SERIES between Anthony Carter and the award winning writer William Hiyashi. They cover the writing process, evolving...
View ArticleIDTALK4ED LIVE Episode #19 – Kwame Sarfo-Mensah talks with Anthony Carter...
It is always exciting to meet other black men committed to transforming themselves and the world. Please listen as we discuss millennials, education, great intergenerational relationships and how we...
View ArticleVisionaries and Truthtellers Presents: From The Price is Right to HIV...
Mark S. King is a writer, activist and overall great guy. We met a decade ago and he encouraged me to share my thoughts (on life as a black, gay middle aged man) online. Mark continues to challenge all...
View ArticleVisionaries and Truthtellers Presents: Shariya’ Gray – The Black-Matician...
In the latest in my series “Visionaries and Truthtellers Presents” I talk with Shariya’ Gray – The Black-Matician. If you enjoy this video please tell your friends and share this page.
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