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Location: Long Beach, CA Anthony Carter is a writer, actor and teacher. He is adjusting to life on the West Coast after years of being a theater rat in NYC. He is an incredible cook and looks forward...
View ArticleWhy We All Need a Love Army and a Three Step Process to Building and...
I want to believe that I am still 25. Accepting limitations is hard. Nobody wants to acknowledge that they are not the person they used to be. By accepting our limitations, we cannot be held back or...
View Article21 Ways for Black Males to become Mentally Healthy (audio interview)
When I began writing Unfettered Mind: The Importance of Black Male Mental Health, I was unaware of the need for mental health tools and the denial by many that this was not an issue that needed to be...
View ArticleThe Ultimate Guide to Saving Black Men Using the Ways of the Amish Part 2
In the previous post, I pointed out that racism has invented itself as police brutality. A radical redistribution of wealth would force a new way of thinking and behavior modification. A movement needs...
View ArticleWhy We Should Choose “Grown Up Love”
Most of us are raised by people who know nothing about love. Many of us confuse love with care(http://goodmenproject.com/guy-talk/why-we-confuse-love-with-care/) and then wonder why we are so confused,...
View ArticleBurn the Map (audio interview) with Dr. Ni
Anthony is interviewed on the show "Journeying with Dr. Ni" on BlogTalkRadio.com. Running time: 1 hour 49 minutes. It is always a thrill to meet someone who thinks, acts and challenges themselves and...
View ArticleThree Secrets to a Successful Relationship Part 3 (Learning)
Yesterday, my man beat me...Again. In Scrabble. The final portion of creating a successful relationship is the ability to learn from each other daily. Many couples meet and silently agree that neither...
View ArticleOur Fears Make Stories Real
A guest post by C. Hope Clark I’ve recently become familiar with Anthony Carter, his voice, his refreshing outlook. So when he asked me to guest post for him, I found myself in a quandary. Here I am...
View ArticleBetter is Now
Although I love the concept of the "It gets Better" campaign, I'm not sure that this is enough. While it is far more than the young gays of my generation received in terms of self esteem and a severe...
View ArticleWhy We Should Cancel Pride Celebrations
Pride festivals for all of 2011 and beyond should be canceled. More important than hunky guys, displays of camp, and the all consuming focus on gay marriage, our young people need all of our time and...
View ArticleKnowing Uncle Calvin for What He Is
When I was a little boy, my father's best friend was a pimp. Uncle Calvin was dapper, charming and always sported the latest fashions. I had no idea what this man did for a living. The only thing I...
View ArticleTeaching: Hatred and Stupidity for the Masses
Seth Stambaugh was fired for being honest. This is the lesson we are teaching young people. Be honest until it's inconvenient. As a gay teacher of color, my contributions to the lives of young people...
View ArticleIn Praise of Good Men
In an effort to make sense of so much of the craziness that goes on, everybody would like a scapegoat. Someone to blame everything on. I have read a great deal of feminist literature. I love me some...
View ArticleDid I Sign a Youth Death Sentence?
I am a cowardly murderer. I stood by watching the hate and homophobia of the world devour our youth and did nothing to prevent it. I could have spoken up. I could have screamed. I could have demanded...
View ArticleIs Glee Too Gay?
First off, I want to say that I love this show. Every scene between Kurt and his dad is kind, hopeful, thoughtful, loving and insightful. If any of us had ever had an adult this supportive and...
View ArticleGlee is Brilliant Television
I write this response to highlight and draw attention to the most sublime television I have seen in over a decade.
View ArticleWhy Black Fear Matters
I write this essay as a direct response to all of the drama surrounding the belief, statistically factually proven or not, that the black folks in our great state of California overwhelmingly voted for...
View ArticleRules of Reality
Prologue: Rules of Reality America in 2050 was no longer about freedom. Americans had willingly traded freedom for constant surveillance and fear. What began immediately following 9/11 as a war on...
View ArticleWarning: Black, Gorgeous, Brilliant Gay Man is Influencing Young Children
My very young and impressionable grandchildren cornered me one day regarding my pending nuptials. Are you the girl? Who will wear the dress? After the inquisition was masterfully handled, they each...
View ArticleThe # 1 Cause of Drama (Broken Agreements) And What to Do About It
All issues, drama, chaos and confusion can be traced back to the same source. A broken agreement. Somebody didn’t hold up their end of an agreement and decided to go in another direction. Most of us...
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